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Grief Journal with gentle prompts, at your own pace

A bereavement journal with 60 gently guided pages, a different prompt on each, plus space for how you're feeling, one small thing for yourself, gratitude and affirmations. Undated.

An undated grief journal with 60 pages, each with a gentle prompt such as 'Today I miss…' or 'A memory I want to keep', plus space for how you're feeling and one small thing for yourself, and affirmation, gratitude and journal pages.

  • 155 linked pages in the sample
  • Free preview before you pay
  • $12 once, or unlimited on Pro
Grief Journal cover
Grief Journal grief journal

Real pages from this grief journal

Rendered by the same engine that builds yours, in the Ocean Calm theme for iPad portrait.

What's inside

The pages, section by section.

Each section gets its own side tab. You can switch any of them off, or add sections from other planners, in the builder.
Grief

Grief Journal

Gentle journal pages with a different prompt on each page.

  • Grief Journal60 pages
Journal

Gratitude & Journal

Weekly gratitude pages, affirmations and journal pages.

  • Affirmations1 page
  • Gratitudeevery week
  • Journal24 pages

Plus the linked calendar every planner has

  • Cover and contents · 2 pages

    A cover with your name and a linked contents page that every tab returns to.

  • Year overview · 1 page

    Twelve blank month grids to date yourself.

  • Year goals · 1 page

    Your goals and their milestones in one place, filled in by the AI if you use it.

  • Monthly calendars · every month

    A month grid with a focus list and notes. Every date links to its day or week.

  • Notes · 20 pages

    Lined, dotted, grid or blank pages. You choose how many, up to 100.

The sample above comes to 155 pages over 12 months. Yours changes with the months, sections and notes pages you choose.

Who it's for

Who reaches for this one

  • Anyone grieving a loved one
  • People supporting a grieving friend who want to give something useful
  • Those grieving a pet, a relationship or another loss
AI goal planning

Goals people plan with it

Type a goal like one of these and the AI breaks it into a milestone for each month and a small action for each week, then prints them on your month and week pages. You read and edit every line before you download.

  • Your goal

    Write when I need to, without pressure

    12 monthly milestonesWeekly actionsA motto each month
  • Your goal

    Keep the memories I'm afraid of losing

    12 monthly milestonesWeekly actionsA motto each month
  • Your goal

    Take one small kind step for myself each day

    12 monthly milestonesWeekly actionsA motto each month
Plan my goals
Guide

How to use a grief journal

There's no right way to grieve and no right way to use a grief journal. Some people write every day at first; others open it on anniversaries. The prompts are there for days when you want to write but don't know where to start.
  1. Write when you want to

    It's undated, so there's no pressure to keep up. Open it when you need it.

  2. Use the prompt or ignore it

    Each page has a gentle prompt, such as 'Today I miss…' or 'A memory I want to keep'. If something else is on your mind, write that instead.

  3. Notice how you're feeling

    A small box on each page asks how you're feeling today, without needing an explanation.

  4. Do one small thing for yourself

    Another box asks for one small kind thing: a walk, a meal with a friend, an early night.

  5. Keep memories safe

    Write down stories, phrases and details you're afraid of forgetting. They'll be here when you want them.

What to include in a grief journal

A grief journal should be gentle, flexible and yours. This one includes:

Calendar

Weekly and monthly pages

Twelve undated month pages where you can note anniversaries and hard dates. No weekly or daily pages.

Grief

Grief Journal

60 journal pages, each with a gentle prompt, a box for how you're feeling and a box for one small thing for yourself.

  • Grief Journal · 60 pages
Journal

Gratitude & Journal

Affirmations, weekly gratitude pages and 24 open journal pages.

  • Affirmations · 1 page
  • Gratitude · every week
  • Journal · 24 pages

Every section can be switched off in the builder, and sections from other planners can be added.

Digital vs printable grief journal

A digital grief journal is private on your own device, and you can paste in photos of the person you're missing.

Many people prefer writing grief by hand. Print the pages on A5 and keep them somewhere quiet.

Digital sizes
iPad portrait, iPad landscape, Android portrait, Android landscape, E-ink
Printable sizes
A5 print, A4 print, Letter print, Half letter

An example week in a grief journal

One goal, followed through a single week. The milestone and weekly actions are the kind of lines the AI goal step writes onto your month and week pages; the daily notes are what you add by hand.

Goal

Write when I need to, without pressure

Milestone for the first month

A few pages written, at my own pace

This week's actions

  • Keep the journal somewhere easy to reach
  • Write after hard moments
  • One small kind thing each day
  • MondayPrompt: today I miss… Wrote about Sunday phone calls.
  • TuesdayDidn't write. That's okay.
  • ThursdayA memory I want to keep: the camping trip and the burnt pancakes.
  • SaturdaySmall thing for me: lunch with my sister.
  • SundayFeeling: tired and a bit lighter.
Plan your own goals
Formats

Download it for your device.

Every format is included in the price. Switch between them and download again whenever you like.
  • iPad — Portrait

    GoodNotes, Notability, Noteshelf, Xodo, Collanote, ZoomNotes

  • iPad — Landscape

    GoodNotes, Notability, Noteshelf, Xodo

  • Android tablet — Portrait

    Samsung Notes, Penly, Flexcil, Xodo, Noteshelf

  • Android tablet — Landscape

    Samsung Notes, Penly, Flexcil, Xodo

  • E-ink tablet

    reMarkable, Kindle Scribe, Boox, Supernote

  • Printable — A5

    Print at home or at a print shop, fits A5 binders

  • Printable — A4

    Print at home on standard A4 paper

  • Printable — US Letter

    Print at home on US Letter paper

  • Printable — Half Letter

    Fits Happy Planner classic and half-letter discs

Theme

Starts in this look.

Ocean Calm

Cool blues and sea-glass greens for clear thinking.

Prefer something else? Pick from 13 themes, including dark mode and an e-ink theme, and change the accent colour.

See all themes
Questions

Grief journal questions

Do I have to write every day?

No. It's undated, so you write when you want to and nothing goes to waste. Some people write daily at first, then once a week, then on anniversaries.

Where can I find support?

If grief feels overwhelming, talk to your doctor, a bereavement service or a counselor. If you're thinking about harming yourself, contact a crisis line or emergency services straight away.

Is there a free grief journal?

You can build this grief journal and flip through every page in your browser for free, with a watermark. The tabs and links work in the preview, so you can check the layout before you pay. The clean PDF is $12 once, or included in Pro at $49 a year for unlimited planners. There is no free download of the full planner.

Does it work with GoodNotes, Notability, Samsung Notes and e-ink tablets?

Yes. Download the iPad size for GoodNotes, Notability, Noteshelf, Xodo, Collanote or ZoomNotes; the Android size for Samsung Notes, Penly, Flexcil or Xodo; or the E-ink size for reMarkable, Kindle Scribe, Boox and Supernote. The links work in any app that follows PDF links, usually in read mode rather than pen mode. Every size is included in the price.

Can I print the grief journal?

Yes. Choose A5, A4, US Letter or Half Letter in the builder for a printable PDF with a wider inner margin for hole punching. Printable and digital sizes come with the same purchase, so you can use the grief journal on a tablet and print the pages you want on paper.

Does the AI fill in the grief journal for me?

Only the goal parts, and only if you want it to. Type up to six goals and the AI writes a milestone for each month and a short action for each week onto your month and week pages, plus a motto for each month. You can edit every line before you download. Everything else, from the calendar pages to the trackers, is yours to fill in by hand. You can try it 3 times a day without an account.

How many pages is the grief journal?

With the default settings it comes to about 174 pages. That includes 12 month pages, the Grief Journal and Gratitude & Journal pages and 20 notes pages. Switching off sections makes it shorter, and the builder shows the total as you change things.

Make it yours in about a minute.

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